1 - 2 years
Between 1 & 2 years children are becoming more independent and curious about things. Their behaviour may change. Toddlers have lots of energy and are constantly on the move. They enjoy copying you, like to try new things, help you and be involved, but may be slow to do things and get annoyed.
Parenting
As a parent/caregiver you play a big role in the understanding your child develops of the world. Children learn a lot by watching what you do, and the way you talk and act with them and others.
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Family/whanau & community support
Your family/whānau may be able to support you in a variety of ways. They may be involved in caring for your child and providing you with advice and support.
I need love and warmth to help me grow
Being warm, loving, giving lots of praise and telling them they are important helps children behave well and feel good. This includes saying lots of positive things and avoiding saying…
I need you to be consistent and to have consequences
Be consistent; words and actions need to match. Don’t tell them one thing and then do another. Try to respond in the same way to your child’s behaviour each time.…
I need you to guide and understand me
Talking to your child about how their behaviour affects others helps them to learn to get on with others. Be clear about what you would like them to do and…
I need you to provide me with a structured and secure world
Think about things you can do to structure your child’s world. For example, don’t try taking them to the supermarket when they’re tired and hungry.
I need you to set limits and boundaries
Children need to know and understand the rules and limits, these should be fair, realistic for their age and positive. Have as few rules as possible and stick to them.
Parenting toddlers
Toddlers are very interested and curious in things. They learn very quickly by watching, listening, touching and playing. They explore and experiment, and each experience teaches them something new about…
